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3 Ways to Sleep Better Together

Sleep is a powerful restorative: A good night's sleep can help us maintain a healthy weight, stress less, and feel more energized. Yet many Americans are not getting nearly enough sleep, and it is often due to the tossing and turning of our loved ones!

From blanket-hogging to snoring, our mates can keep us awake well into the wee hours of the morning. While sleeping together can create intimacy and bonding, it can also lead to cranky, sluggish couples who need more zzz's.

Thankfully, there is a way to sleep together and sleep well. All you need are the right bedroom accessories: 

  1. A mattress built for two.  Natura Sleep Solutions offers a line of mattresses with Dual-Slat system technology. In laymen's terms, the mattress has a separate base for each partner, although it is all part of the same bed. Thus, couples can sleep together comfortably, as the movements of one partner won't affect the other side of the mattress. Alternately, the Tempur-Pedic® Swedish Mattress offers couples a respite from tossing and turning, as the  mattress conforms to the individual's body and isolates each partner's movement.
  2. Don't let the bed bugs bite.  Did you know that your pillow might be filled with dust mites, dust mite feces, and other allergens? Eeek! Throw your pillow out a least once a year in order to maintain fluff and keep out the bed bugs. Alternately, you can invest in a pillow with fabric that can destroy dust mites, such as the ProTech Fortel Anti-Dust Mite pillow.
  3. Keep the stragglers out.  If you want your whole family to sleep peacefully, then you need to get out of the habit of communal sleep. Cuddle with your kids in their own beds before lights out, but don't bring any stragglers with you. Invest in fun sheets decorated with their favorite cartoon characters, and let them choose a nightlight they love. Make their bedroom a place that is just for them--and your bedroom a place that is just for you!
67 Comments Report Abuse
1. mygiraffe1968 - Nov 01 09:16pm
this is been told for years, nothing new
2. dyshetra_banks - Nov 03 12:16pm
THIS ARTICLE HELP ME OUT A WHOLE LOT.
3. chrissy_snow84 - Nov 04 06:07am
i might have to check out that mattress, my husband tosses and turns ALL night. its either that or a divorce. LOL
4. thayergirl - Nov 06 04:06am
You didn't deal with snoring or blanket hogging? How do we cope with those issues??
5. fairydust51979 - Nov 06 08:33am
I could really use information on how to help out a partner with snoring...the rest of the info in the article I already knew....
6. fairydust51979 - Nov 06 08:33am
I could really use information on how to help out a partner with snoring...the rest of the info in the article I already knew....
7. ozair_khalid2003 - Nov 06 07:57pm
I found this information quiet helpful, many things are new in this article.
8. tammylocklear - Nov 11 07:02am
I've thought about investing in some of those mattresses. They are very expensive. I guess I could afford them if I wrote useless info blogs like Dr. Berman.
9. debhanley513 - Nov 14 10:44am
What do you think about a husband that signs up for a single dating service, then meets this person in Vegas when out with the guys, then calls her everyday and nite for 6 months and then goes to meet her again 3 more times and says if you only knew how platonic this was?
10. cclarksc@sbcglobal.net - Nov 14 05:26pm
By throw out, do you mean throw away and go buy a new pillow each year??? That seems wasteful..especially when you've bought an almost $40 cervical spine-supporting pillow :-/
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